Evidence of Healing: Transforming Lives After Domestic Abuse
Independent evaluation confirms that Safe Arbour delivers transformational outcomes for families who have experienced domestic abuse.
In a crisis affecting 2.3 million adults and 825,000 children annually, Safe Arbour provides a unique evidence-based solution that supports mothers and young children to heal together.
84.6% Completion
93.3% Safer
13X+ Social ROI[1]
A National Emergency Caught In A Gap
"I used to go to play groups with my child, but other mums would ask questions... I’d either over-share or lie, so I stopped going. It’s nice to be in a group where everyone just gets it.” — Safe Arbour Participant
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• 2.1–2.3 million adults experienced domestic abuse in 2023-24
• 1 in 4 women experience domestic abuse in their lifetime
• 825,000 children currently live in households with domestic abuse
• Domestic abuse is the second highest reason for children coming to the attention of safeguarding services [n]
• 1 child in every classroom has lived with abuse
• Less than 0.5% children under 3 receive support for domestic abuse [2][3]
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• £66 billion annual cost to England & Wales
• £47 billion in survivor health costs
• £8.3 billion in child social services
• One child in care costs £50,000-60,000 annually
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• Less than 20% of those subjected to domestic abuse ever report abuse to police
• Access to domestic abuse recovery support for families with young children is extremely limited and under equipped
• Under 10% access specialised recovery services
• 18-month waits for trauma therapy
• Most areas lack mother-child therapeutic services
• Only 3 / 50 local authorities provide domestic abuse services for children in the early years [3]
The 12 Weeks That Change Everything
Safe Arbour is not just a support group; it is a 12-week structured journey from isolation to connection that changes the long-term trajectory of the women and children who attend.
Weeks 1-2: Building Safety
"At first I didn’t want to go..."
Key Focus
Establishing trust
Creating safe space
Providing Practical support
Weeks 3-9: Processing & Learning
"I've gained a toolbox of skills to help me through my challenges."
Key Focus
Trauma-informed group work
Parent-child bonding
Parallel children’s programme
Skill development
Weeks 10-12: Integration & Growth
"Now I’d recommend it to anyone"
Key Focus
Future planning
Network building
6 Months Later
“you helped let the light back in"
Key Focus
Sustained improvements
Peer support
Living free from fear
How We Achieve It:
The Safe Arbour programme is designed to reduce isolation and shame, and re-connect mothers with their strengths, their children, and each other.
Family Time: each session starts with mothers and children together, with structured activities and supportive professional staff, to settle into the session, strengthen the mother-child bond, and create positive memories together.
Women’s group: a combination of Domestic abuse education, Solihull Approach (a relationship-based parenting framework), and the Tree of Life narrative therapy techniques are used to help mothers understand what happened to them and how they and their children can recover.
Children’s Parallel Programme: while mums meet, children engage in supported play to develop social skills and emotional regulation.
Opportunities to build community: during lunch, and the half-term trip, families have time to get to know each other and build a new community together.
"We played with bubbles and play-dough for hours after the group... I can't remember when we last had such a lovely, connected day." — Program Participant
Clinically Significant, Independently Measured
Our outcomes are tracked using validated clinical scales. The results show profound improvements across maternal well-being, safety perception, and child development.
1. Maternal Well-being & Agency
Mothers leave Safe Arbour with restored confidence and a renewed sense of self.
Self-Esteem: 100% of participants showed improvement, moving from "borderline low" to a "healthy range."
Shame Reduction: An average of 61% decrease in feelings of shame (with some participants seeing a 100% reduction), a critical factor in recovery.
2. Violence & Safety Perceptions
Mothers’ safety scores increased by an average of 93.3% (4.9 → 7.4 → 7.5 on an 8‑point scale).
54.6% achieved the maximum possible score for feeling secure.
3. Child Development
Professionals and parents alike report visible changes in children’s behaviour.
Widespread Improvement: 71% of children under 6 (including non-participant siblings) showed a clear reduction in behavioural concerns.
Deep Impact: On average, the intensity of these behavioural concerns dropped by nearly half (44% reduction in clinical scores).
Long-Term Change: Six months after the group, the number of children considered "high risk" had dropped by more than 50%.
Professional Feedback: "He seems much more inclined not to stew over disagreements; he'll either deal with it and move on or just shrug it off." — Nursery Teacher
"100% of participants strongly agreed with the statements ‘Safe Arbour helped me a lot’ and ‘Safe Arbour helped my child a lot’ 6 months after the programme ended." — Dr. Rasha Hamid, PhD.
The Financial Case: Prevention vs. Crisis
Safe Arbour aligns with NICE evaluations finding that specialist domestic abuse interventions are highly cost-effective. By investing early, we prevent costly crisis escalations.
1. The Cost of Inaction: A Representative Scenario
To illustrate, here is a composite example based on typical cases and government unit cost estimates:
“A mother ("Sally") with two children (Mark, a toddler, and Jordan, an adolescent). They are living in temporary accommodation after escaping abuse. Mark is non-verbal and is being assessed for autism; Jordan is exhibiting behavioural challenges. The family is currently managed by social services and accessing mental health support. Sally is on anti‑anxiety medication and the family are in counselling to cope with trauma.”
Estimated annual cost to the public purse for this single family:
Housing & Safety
Typical Services Used: Temporary accommodation & Police call-outs
Annual Estimate: £10,000
Health & Recovery
Typical Services Used: GP, A&E, Medication, Trauma Therapy
Annual Estimate: £9,015
Social Care
Typical Services Used: Family Support Worker & Social Worker
Annual Estimate: £6,500
Education & Youth
Typical Services Used: Specialist provision / Alternative schooling
Annual Estimate: £8,500
TOTAL ANNUAL COST, Status Quo (No Intervention): £34,015
2. Break‑Even: The Low-Risk Investment Argument
If we assume an indicative programme cost of around £2,500 per family, then:
Safe Arbour only needs to reduce this crisis spend by around 6–7% to fully pay for itself.
Any additional reduction – fewer police call-outs, less intensive social work, reduced need for CAMHS or alternative schooling – represents net savings to the system.
We don’t claim that every family will avoid all of these costs. Instead, we show that any reduction in statutory dependency beyond 6% represents pure social profit.
3. Stopping the Escalation: The Pyramid of Cost
If we do not intervene during the early years (0-5), the costs do not stay static—they escalate. Safe Arbour acts as a "circuit breaker" on this trajectory.
The Escalation Pyramid:
Where the cost goes if we don't act now.
🔺 £100,000+ | System Failure (Youth offending / Residential care)
🔺 £30,000+ | Statutory Care (Foster placement)
🔺 £17,000+ | Educational Exclusion (Alternative schooling)
🔺 £5,000+ | Crisis Management (Social worker involvement)
🟢 £2,500 | Early Intervention (Safe Arbour)
4. Long-Term Prevention: The Multiplier Effect
Because Safe Arbour works with children in the early years, investments today can prevent 10 to 15 years of the above costs being incurred.
The Care System: Preventing one child from entering foster care saves ~£27,000 annually.
Education: Preventing a single child’s placement in a Pupil Referral Unit saves ≈£17,000 annually.
Macro Impact: Domestic abuse costs the economy £66 billion annually, with £14.1 billion lost in work productivity alone.
The value of breaking the intergenerational cycle of abuse is immeasurable. The cost of failing to do so is calculated in the billions.
“Families who have experienced significant trauma are expensive to the public purse, no matter what we do. The least expensive thing we can do is help them.” Jennifer Savage, Safe Arbour
Serving All Communities
Domestic abuse does not discriminate, and neither do we. Safe Arbour successfully reaches and retains families who often face barriers to accessing services.
Ethnicity: 53% members of the Global Majority | 47% White
Background: 53% born outside UK
Age Range: Serving all Mothers with children under six (84% aged 25-44, avg. 33.6)
"10 of 19 mothers were born outside the UK, demonstrating Safe Arbour’s cultural accessibility.”
"Here, there’s no judgment.”
Why Safe Arbour Outperforms Alternatives
Safe Arbour
Completion Rate: 84.6%
Addresses Mother & Child: ✓
Peer Support Component: ✓
Cost per Family: £2-2.5K
ROI: 13X+
Typical DA Services
Completion Rate: 65%
Addresses Mother & Child: Rarely
Peer Support Component: Sometimes
Cost per Family: £3,000-5,000
ROI: 2-3X
Generic Counselling
Completion Rate: 50%
Addresses Mother & Child: No
Peer Support Component: No
Cost per Family: £2,400
ROI: Not measured
From 19 Families to a National Network: The Multiplier Effect
Given that less than 10% of survivors access specialised recovery, and very few services focus on mothers and children in the early years, Safe Arbour’s model is designed to grow consistently and effectively, using the “train‑the‑trainer” approach without sacrificing quality.
Timeline
Today
19 Families Served
£646,000 Social Value Created
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Year 1
≈ 72 Families Served
£2.4 Million Social Value Created
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Year 2
≈ 216 Families Served
£7.3 Million Social Value Created
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Year 3
600+ families Served
£20+ Million Social Value Created
These figures are illustrative and depend on placement, funding and staff capacity. With a relatively small central team and a growing network of trained practitioners, Safe Arbour can reach hundreds of families a year while maintaining high‑quality, trauma‑informed delivery.
"I wish every DA Survivor had access to this life-changing programme!”
Endorsed by Families, Professionals & Evaluators
Families:
(91% Strongly Agree Helped)
"This experience has been life-changing. I’ve gained a toolbox of skills... You have helped let light back in..”
Professionals:
"Attending Safe Arbour significantly reduced loneliness... Her daughter developed social skills.” — Referrer
"He’s more inclined to resolve disagreements... his aversion to messy play lessened.” — Nursery Teacher
Evaluator Insights:
"84.6% completion is particularly noteworthy where dropout rates are typically high.”
The Ripple Effect: Impact Beyond Numbers
Generational Change:
Children breaking behavioural patterns
Mothers modelling healthy boundaries
Families building new narratives
Community Building:
"We can all keep in touch as they created a WhatsApp group for those in the programme.”
System Change:
Reducing pressure on crisis services
Preventing escalation to child protection
Building community resilience
"We're going on our very first holiday this year and this too has been added to the court order so their dad cannot restrict us. Today, as it stands, life is very good."
Direct Funding
Sponsor Cohorts in Your Area
For Philanthropists & Grant Makers
The Goal: Fund specific groups
The Impact: You receive quarterly impact reports showing exactly how your funding transformed 8–10 families.
Strategic Partnership
Commission Safe Arbour
For Local Authorities & NHS
The Goal: Meet statutory duties
The Impact: You get an evidence-based, cost-effective intervention that reduces pressure on statutory services.
Scale Impact
Enable Wider Expansion
For Major Partners
The Goal: Transform systems
The Impact: You enable systemic change, creating a legacy of prevention across the UK.
The Evidence Is Clear. The Need Is Urgent.
Every 30 seconds: Another woman experiences domestic abuse
Every day: 2,260 children witness violence at home
Every £1 invested: Saves on average £13 in social costs
Every cohort completed: Up to 9 families transformed
Three Ways to Create Lasting Change
"Please don’t stop these groups... it would change so many women’s lives. You guys are the best.”
— Program Participant
References
[1] Internal Link to Calculation [https://chatgpt.com/share/69824b63-3fc8-8003-b153-431d97ea243e]
[2] https://safelives.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/CYP-insights-dataset-2022-23.pdf
[4] https://www.kingsfund.org.uk/insight-and-analysis/data-and-charts/key-facts-figures-nhs
[6] https://questions-statements.parliament.uk/written-questions/detail/2019-01-22/211308
[7] https://www.thefca.co.uk/fostering-allowances/
[8] https://www.kingsfund.org.uk/insight-and-analysis/data-and-charts/key-facts-figures-nhs
[9] https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/the-economic-and-social-costs-of-domestic-abuse